Among the things common to first dates is anticipation.
Anticipation is what embodies or generates the feeling of excitement that is
felt before the date actually takes place
The thought of being with someone and of engaging in a fun
activity such as dinner, going to the movies or for a walk, should create a
good feeling and therefore cause some level of excitement
Having some anticipation about a first date will also help
you to evaluate the experience after it is over
Anticipation about a first date will also likely lead to
having some expectation of what the time together should be like
Whatever activities are engaged in, you will be looking to
learn about your date
And based on your values, your likes and dislikes, the
qualities you want in a partner, you will have some hope or expectations that
this first date will reveal some of those qualities and other positive
attributes
Expectation and having some anticipation about a first date
are therefore important because it establishes a measure or means of
identifying what is or may not be acceptable to you